Why gemstones make better heirlooms than you think

The secret to immortality? It's probably sparkly

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When we picture heirloom jewellery, the image tends to skew ornate. Chunky yellow gold, a few scattered rubies or emeralds in oversized rings, and pieces reserved for weddings or major family milestones. But the jewellery that actually gets passed down often looks different; it’s the pair of earrings your grandmother or aunts wore every day, the ring that never left their finger, and the chain that shone through in every photograph. These pieces weren’t preserved in a locker but rather worn as their signature pieces. Which isn’t to say they played it safe; jewellery with staying power tends to have structure and clarity. It’s built well, feels considered, and holds its own without trying to outshine the rest of your bridal ensemble.

That’s where coloured gemstones are stepping in. Long associated with heirlooms or ceremonial wear, rubies, emeralds, and sapphires are being reconsidered for their practical strengths: durability, rich colour, and staying power that doesn’t hinge on occasion dressing. Alok Lodha has leaned into this shift with a pared-back, stone-first approach. The designs prioritise proportion, clarity, and longevity. There’s a clear resistance to overworking the pieces; they’re made to be lived with.

Craft over clout

While diamonds are now hyper-standardised, albeit a classic, sourcing strong-colour, high-clarity gems—especially untreated ones from places like Zambia, Mozambique or Burma—takes more effort and a keen eye. Alok Lodha handles that with a certain quiet rigour: cut, setting, and balance are calibrated for daily wear. Their emerald and diamond drop earrings make the case well—clean geometry, minimal metal, and no unnecessary weight.

Take their emerald and diamond cocktail ring. It plays on a floral form without tipping into nostalgia. A mix of oval and pear-shaped stones creates a sculptural composition, anchored by a double band that keeps it grounded, proof that a ring can be expressive without turning ornamental. The silhouette feels polished without leaning too sharply and modern without feeling dated, and it’ll still hold up ten years from now.

Made for forever

It’s tempting to buy jewellery like it’s a moment, a ring that makes sense for a selfie. Earrings that require a specific dress or hairstyle to complement. But the truth is, the pieces that hold up are the ones that don’t ask for too much in return. Forget about trend-hopping or playing resale roulette and prioritise investing in pieces that can hold up, stylistically and structurally. Their ruby and diamond heart ring hits this sweet spot. Yes, it leans symbolic. A ruby and diamond heart set side-by-side on a pavé band reads as romantic, almost playfully so. It’s streamlined and visually balanced, and if a red heart on your ring finger still feels like the right call, it probably is.

Versatility is the real luxury

The pieces you reach for instinctively—when you're late, underdressed, or packing light—are usually the ones that require the least styling effort. A ring shouldn’t rely on a fresh manicure. A good pair of earrings doesn’t need an updo or a red carpet moment to work. Alok Lodha’s designs are made with this kind of everyday ease in mind. The settings are low-lift, the profiles are clean, and the colour is doing just enough work. You don’t need a theme or a special occasion to make them make sense.

Which brings us back to the original point. Jewellery that stays in rotation isn’t caught up in mood boards or momentary statements. It fits because it’s built that way, intentionally, thoughtfully, and with the assumption that good taste doesn’t expire. And when you find a piece that checks all those boxes? You’ll probably wear it more than you think.

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