Weddings IRL24 Feb 20266 MIN

A Parsi wedding with a seaside Sangeet surprise

Maia Shroff and Jehan Daruvala’s wedding saw ancient rituals, butter-yellow bridesmaids and a performance that broke the internet (and the groom’s poker face)

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“I was like, there’s no way I’m going to some random guy’s house.” That’s how Maia Shroff almost didn’t meet Jehan Daruvala.

She was a teenager. A friend was desperate to go on a weekend trip to a Lonavala bungalow. The mother had said no and Maia was recruited as the moral buffer. She almost didn’t go. But then, she did.

And here we are—ten years later—at a wedding that would span continents, cultures, 1,800 guests, speedboats, and a bride who modelled on a shoot the day before and still insisted she was “just going to show up, look good, and have fun.” And she did between ancient Parsi rituals, seaside soirées, mermaid lehengas, and marquise-cut natural diamonds destined to become heirlooms.

When fate intervenes at fifteen

Jehan and Maia’s wedding wasn’t a reinvention of tradition. It wasn’t an anti-wedding. It wasn’t even a statement affair. It was, in the truest sense, a celebration of a relationship that began in adolescence and grew up alongside them. Theirs is a love story that didn’t hinge on one or three grand gestures, but on a decade of choosing each other again and again and again.

They met at fifteen; awkward, ambitious, figuring themselves out. He would go on to become one of India’s most recognisable racing drivers, making history in Formula 2’s racing circuits. She would build a career in modelling and launch her own swimwear brand, Papaaya Swimwear. Their lives would stretch across cities and time zones, especially during years of long-distance. But through it all, there was a constant: whenever something happened—good, bad, ordinary—Jehan was the first person Maia wanted to tell, and vice versa.

“It wasn’t about one big realisation,” she says. “It was the accumulation of years, of small moments and big ones, of growing up together.” And maybe that’s what made their wedding feel the way it did: less spectacle, more reunion. A celebration not just of love, but of ten years of inside jokes, airport goodbyes, race weekends in Europe, family holidays, and a proposal in Lake Como that somehow managed to be both a complete surprise and entirely inevitable. And it all began with a weekend she almost skipped.

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The wedding they imagined vs the wedding they had

If you ask Maia what she always pictured when she thought about her wedding, she won’t describe ballrooms or guest lists running into four digits. “I always imagined having an intimate destination wedding,” she says. “I never wanted something big.”

In her mind, it was simple: a beach, a tight circle, just the people who had truly lived the relationship with them. Something easy, fun and sun-soaked. But the final count? 1,800 guests! “It was definitely much larger than what Jehan and I had originally envisioned,” Maia admits. And yet, the way she says it isn’t laced with regret, it’s reflective. Almost amused at how life rarely follows the Pinterest moodboard.

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Because here’s the thing, they didn’t lose their intimate wedding. They just did it differently

Their Alibaug function, set against the sea at Soulinaire, became the version they had always imagined. Around 200 people with a heavy dose of Italian seaside energy, a subtle tribute to their Lake Como proposal. An 11:00 AM start that became a raging sundowner. Think, butter-yellow bridesmaids glowing against the coast and speedboats ferrying guests back and forth. And by 4:00 PM? “Everyone was piss drunk.”

“If you ask Jehan, that was both of our favourite functions,” Maia says. It felt like them. Relaxed. Sunlit. Effortless. While the larger Parsi wedding in Mumbai—the 1,800-person celebration—brought friends and family flying in from Canada, America, London, Dubai and across India. The entire village who had watched them grow from teenagers into adults. “Seeing 1,800 people show up was a reminder of how loved and supported our families are,” Maia reflects.

Prayers, rice, and the Parsi way of doing things

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For all the high-energy celebration that defined the week, the wedding itself was deeply rooted in tradition: unmistakably, unapologetically Parsi. “Having my family there was completely non-negotiable for me,” Maia says. And when it came to the ceremony, there was no dilution.

They followed most of the Parsi customs in full. There was the Supra ceremony, where the women of the family performed a haldi ritual. The Maada Saroo, where her brother plants a seed as a symbol of fertility, “though I’ll admit I’m not entirely sure I’ve got that right,” she laughs. And then came the wedding itself: Parsi priests chanting prayers over them for over an hour, a moment that felt weighty and sacred in the middle of an otherwise celebratory blur.

One of the more playful rituals involved throwing rice across a cloth barrier after the seventh prayer, and whoever throws first is meant to be the more dominant partner in the marriage. “I just want it on record,” Maia says, mock-serious, “that while we did the ritual, I don’t think there’s a dominant party at all. We’re pretty equal, honestly.”

Boys in swirling skirts and one unfiltered smile

If there was one moment that fully captured the spirit of their wedding, chaotic, hilarious, deeply unserious in the best way, it was the sangeet surprise that no one saw coming. “I actually got all my boy friends—like all my childhood guy friends who I grew up with—to dance in ghagra cholis to surprise Jehan,” she says, still amused. 

The result? Absolute mayhem. “I feel like that will always be the highlight of our sangeet. I don’t think there was one person in the crowd who wasn’t dying laughing.” The real victory, however, was Jehan’s reaction. “Mind you, Jehan doesn’t react to anything. If there’s one guy who really struggles with showing any sort of emotion on his face, it’s Jehan.” And yet, the usual poker face was “literally grinning from ear to ear.”

Beach baby meets mermaid lehenga

If there was one area Maia allowed herself to spiral (within reason), it was the wardrobe. “The wedding wardrobe was honestly the only thing I was low-key stressed about,” she admits. Jehan, by contrast, “took approximately five and a half minutes at Shantanu & Nikhil to pick his sangeet outfit.”

Maia’s process was… more immersive. She visited designer after designer before finally landing on Isa by Dolly Wahal for the sangeet, not because the work wasn’t beautiful elsewhere, but because she knew exactly what she wanted. “I knew I wanted a mermaid lehenga. I’m a beach baby, my friends still call me a mermaid, and I own a swimwear brand, so it felt very me.” The silhouette was custom-made, tight-fitted, unapologetically sculpted.

Her wedding sari, from Simone Handcrafted, had been decided long before the engagement ring. “I had known for three or four years before getting married that I wanted to be a Simone bride.” She even designed the sari herself. And when it came to jewellery, she was equally certain. “I knew I wanted natural diamonds… my entire wedding set was natural diamonds, all marquise, which is my favourite cut.”

The wedding film they’ll show their kids

Long after the celebrations fade into family lore, there will be one thing Maia knows she’ll return to: their wedding film. They chose Luna Studios after meeting Neha (Sharma), Founder & Director at Luna Studios, and her team at their engagement party, and it wasn’t just about aesthetics. “Besides being amazing at what they do, we’ve honestly never met a more heartwarming group of people,” Maia says. “They were so kind to us and to all our guests.” What sealed it was their engagement teaser. “Our little engagement teaser is the best video I’ve ever seen. I still watch it on repeat to this day.” But the real magic lies in how Luna captured intimate snippets from family and friends. “When our wedding film comes out, and even 20 years down the line when I show it to my kids, they’ll know exactly what we were feeling and thinking at the time.”

 

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