Wedding hopper diaries05 Feb 20263 MIN

Aaliya Amrin has mastered the art of being the best-dressed guest in the room

The entrepreneur on dhoti-pants, picking saris over lehengas, and the one destination wedding hack that never lets her down

Aaliya Amrin in a sari by Acquire and Outhouse jewellery

Amrin in a modular concept sari by Acquire and Outhouse jewellery

Presenter, producer, and co-founder of content studio By The Gram, Aaliya Amrin is the definition of a modern multi-hyphenate. She’s also, conveniently, always at a wedding. Scroll through her Instagram and you’ll find a greatest-hits feed of her friends’ big days—each one accompanied by a perfectly considered guest look. We caught up with Amrin to talk about destination wedding hacks, outfit strategy, and how to stay dressed up without losing personal style (or your sanity).

Wed count: “I’ve attended around five weddings in the past year alone, each wildly different in mood and scenery. From sun-drenched Mallorca to palatial Istanbul and Doha, a coastal San Diego wedding, and, of course, the never-ending Mumbai circuit. Each destination wedding has its own rhythm and dress code, which is half the joy and bane of being a guest.”

Wedding guest style: “My wedding guest style is rooted in familiarity—silhouettes I know and trust since eons—and always leaves room for instinct. I gravitate towards dhoti pant sets, strong jackets or capes, and I’ll almost always choose a sari over a lehenga. I love the intelligence of a sari, the way it allows you to drape, move, sit, dance, while still carrying so much drama!

Aaliya Amrin in an asymmetric Masaba gown and Amama jewellery
An asymmetric Masaba gown and Amama jewellery

Textile-wise, I’m deeply drawn to the art of mixing Indian fabrics in a way that feels more intentional rather than costume-y. Indian weddings today often come with hyper-specific themes and “wardrobe planners”, but I think it’s crucial to still look like yourself. Comfort is non-negotiable for me, if you’re not at ease, it shows. I wish there were a neat formula, but modern weddings are designed to be as maximally unique as possible, which means any formula gets joyfully thrown out the window.”

Fail-safe styling trick: “Never hold back on the jewellery. My Indian jewellery collection is my pride and joy, and I love how it allows me to keep the clothing relatively understated. A pared-back silk suit paired with statement Amama or Olio pieces instantly feels considered and complete.”

Favourite designers: “Some consistent favourites are 431-88 by Shweta Kapur for sharp silhouettes, Acquire for its hand smocking and embroidery, Stephany D’Souza for fluidity and drama, Ekaya and Shanti Banaras for their textile integrity, Inca for experimental, and Studio Medium for pieces that feel modern but rooted. These are designers I trust to let the garment speak—without overpowering the wearer. And of course, Itrh if I want to really have a big moment!”

Destination wedding hack: “Skip the big, puffy lehengas entirely. They’re impractical, uncomfortable, and a nightmare to travel with. Destination weddings reward ease—think fluid silks, structured separates, and pieces you can actually move (and dance) in. Lightweight saris, dhoti pants, and statement capes will always outperform one-time lehengas.”

Won’t leave home without: “Rio de Janeiro body oil, Crimzon heels (they are the only heels that can survive an Indian wedding), soft cushioned after-party juttis, Anita Dongre pret or Divyam Mehta for in-betweens, Inde Wild’s Slick Stick and brush, a fresh brow lamination, and lash curl and lots of boob tape.”

In the potli: “My Fuji camera, lip gloss, and my hotel key. That’s really it.”

Next wedding: “I have one coming up this summer in the English countryside, a very different energy again, but one I’m already mentally dressing for.”

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