Growing up, who were your fashion influences?
Destiny’s Child, Rekha, ’90s hip hop music videos, anything the designers Misa Hylton and June Ambrose touched, and Poo from K3G, obviously.
What does ‘feeling connected’ to your culture through clothing look like for you today?
Personal style has always been a vessel for self-expression for me. These days, I find connection through mixing south Asian ready-to-wear designers with pieces from brands like Rick Owens, Dries Van Noten, Y/Project and Christopher John Rogers.
It doesn’t have to be an obvious signifier like a jhumka or kurta. Sometimes, it’s a subtle nod. The way a skirt is draped, for example, feels intentional. I also think it’s important to acknowledge that my identity is complex and nuanced and extends far beyond ethnicity.
What’s something in your wardrobe that feels deeply tied to your identity but wouldn’t read that way to others?
I have a linen dress from Diotima’s spring 2025 collection with cutouts and embellishments that wouldn’t read overtly ‘Indian’ to most. But when I bought it, I had a beautiful conversation with Rachel Scott, the designer, about identity. She shared that many Diotima pieces are crafted in India, including the canvas cotton dress I had just purchased moments before.
When people talk about the ‘tacky NRI aesthetic’, what do you think they’re actually reacting to?
I’ve spent a lot of time in India, so I understand why the fashion community feels a lot of the diaspora fashion feels tacky and outdated. However, I want to contextualise this sentiment with a bit more nuance. A lot of the Indian families that migrated in the ’80s and ’90s to the West didn’t come from generational wealth. They migrated to the West in the hope of better opportunity and upward economic mobility. The older women—the mothers and aunties in my own community—didn’t have access to the fashion industry (think pre-Instagram and the internet boom) or the means to purchase anything beyond what was available in their local fabric shops. Then they migrated at a young age and held on to the India they left 40 or 50 years ago for survival.
So naturally, the fashion that they passed on to their children is antiquated. Which begs the question: how do we, as daughters and sons of immigrants, now build our own relationship with the motherland, one that is rooted in the fashion industry and south Asia of today. Now, with our privilege and access to the internet, how do we actively nurture that relationship, especially if we work in these cultural third spaces? That requires spending time, energy, and resources in south Asia with the local community.