The Nod Book Club10 Sep 20255 MIN

There’s a big mystery at the centre of ‘Real Life’, but don’t call it a mystery novel

A terrible crime in far-flung Denmark inspired author Amrita Mahale to write her second book. What resulted was a story about female friendship, AI, and the many ways of disappearing

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In August 2017, a Swedish journalist, Kim Wall, boarded the submarine UC3 Nautilus to interview Danish tech entrepreneur and local celebrity Peter Madsen in Køge Bay, Denmark. No one heard from Wall again. Months later, parts of her dismembered corpse washed up ashore around the area, and Madsen was arrested and later convicted for her murder. It’s a gruesome incident that lodged in author Amrita Mahale’s mind and sowed the seed for her second novel, Real Life, after 2018’s Milk Teeth.

To be clear, Real Life is not gruesome (even if its opening line would make you believe otherwise: “Your head, they find it last”); the connection between the Denmark incident and the novel isn’t perceptible unless you hear it from Mahale. What the “submarine case” did was make Mahale contemplate the attitudes and undercurrents surrounding the incident and its aftermath. “I knew I wanted to explore male rage, misogyny, how misogyny is internalised by both men and women, and how even women have expectations of how good, respectable women should live and behave,” says Mahale when we meet over a video call on a weekday afternoon.

Mumbai-based Mahale is an aerospace engineer by training and now heads product and innovation at a nonprofit working in the field of child and maternal health. Real Life, The Nod Book Club’s September pick, is, at its heart, the story of a friendship. Mansi and Tara, both from contrasting socio-economic backgrounds, meet when they are seven and become friends, sharing a love for reading, Chitrahaar, fried bread rolls, and the dog name Chunky.

As they grow older, they remain close, even if they are sceptical of each other’s life choices. Mansi’s job involves improving the efficacy of the country’s “third most popular fairness cream”, while Tara decides to do her research project on dholes, or Himalayan wild dogs, in the (fictional) Mahamaya Valley in the foothills of the Himalayas. The jibes and the little cruelties of a lifelong friendship are there, but so is a deep-seated, unperturbed affection. In the middle of her fieldwork, Tara goes missing. The main suspect, Bhaskar, a scientist studying machine learning, is someone with a past connection to both Mansi and Tara, and his interrogation throws up more questions than answers.

Through the three characters, the novel encompasses the aforementioned themes of rage and misogyny but also climate change, overtourism, AI, techno-solutionism and supermodernity—and privilege. Cleverly, Mahale also leaves us little breadcrumbs that play with our expectations of what it means when a woman disappears. There’s a mystery at the centre of the novel, but to call Real Life a mystery novel seems inadequate.

Below, excerpts from an interview with Mahale, where she talks about female friendships in literature, ChatGPT, and tackling privilege in her novel:

The crux of the book is the friendship between Mansi and Tara, before you can explore any other themes. Why did you make female friendship the foundation of Real Life?

I’m a huge fan of Elena Ferrante’s Neopolitan novels. I thought just the construct of a female friendship is a way to explore different ways of being a woman in the world. You have two characters who are essentially witnesses to each other’s lives. So, I suppose that was what drew me to this setup. But then, over time, the friendship became the emotional core, the heart, of the novel. That was not intentional. A lot of this is fairly mysterious. Writing fiction is very mysterious. You start off with a certain objective, but then the process takes over. So, you don’t know why you made the choices you did.

You’ve mentioned that you wrote Bhaskar’s character about six months before ChatGPT was launched. When ChatGPT actually launched in 2022, what was your reaction? Where did Bhaskar go from there?

I was shocked. I was heartbroken, because I thought my novel was now going to seem very pedestrian, which did not end up being the case. An earlier draft of the novel had Bhaskar working on something that’s a bit futuristic; it was a research project. But now, any kid can essentially spin up a chatbot that sounds like another person. I thought that subplot would no longer be interesting, but actually it’s more interesting because it’s something that almost everybody can relate to. It’s not speculative anymore.

The book is divided into three sections, told from the point of view of Mansi, Bhaskar and Tara, respectively, followed by an epilogue. Mansi’s opening section is the only place where you employ a first-person voice. Why so?

With Mansi’s section, I started on page one and I basically just followed the voice. Her voice was very, very clear in my head. In fact, I think I wrote almost the entire first chapter in the first month of writing the novel. The first two months I didn’t move forward at all; I just wanted to make sure I got her voice right. It came from some place deep within.

And I wanted to make Mansi’s section sound a little bit like a soap opera. It’s the most dramatic of the three sections. There are lots of emotional ups and downs. In her interviews, Ferrante talks about how she’s not above using any trick to make the reader keep turning the page. She loves writing page-turners, but she wants to make sure she has the reader’s attention. But once she has the readers’ attention, she’s not going to pander to them. She wants to engage with the reader on her own terms, but first, she talks about the importance of hooking the reader in.

So, I think my intention with Mansi’s section was similar; I wanted to draw the reader in completely. And then the novel gradually becomes more complex. In the first part, it’s not a novel of ideas. The bigger themes of the novel start getting introduced in Bhaskar’s section and then in Tara’s section. I just wanted to make the first section juicy, soapy, fun. And every chapter also ends on a bit of a cliffhanger, almost like a soap opera.

Do you have a favourite character?

Tara. Her section was also the most fulfilling to write. I won’t say the most fun to write, because writing is not very fun. But I really enjoyed writing her parts the most. And I really loved the research I had to do for Tara’s section.

How did you come upon dholes, or Himalayan wild dogs, as a subject for Tara’s field study?

There are two novels that I read a long time ago that have really stayed with me. One is Amitav Ghosh’s The Hungry Tide, and the second is William Boyd’s Brazzaville Beach, both of which feature female biologists. In The Hungry Tide, Piya studies dolphins in the Sunderbans. In Brazzaville Beach, the protagonist studies chimpanzees in Africa. And I just thought it was a way radical choice of occupation for a woman—to be on her own, to navigate the wild, the uncontrolled, the opposite of domestic. So, you’ll begin to see like a theme, a pattern. It was a very different way of being from my own life. That’s what really attracted me. Even in Milk Teeth, Ira had a profession [civic-beat reporter] that let her walk around the city, make sense of the built environment. So, the choice of profession for the characters in my novel is often very strategic, very deliberate, which lets them do certain things and lets me do certain things.

In Real Life, you also touch upon some big themes—AI, overtourism, nature. How did you navigate all these big ideas running in the same book?

To me, the novel was about two things. One was: what does it mean to seek a life that feels real in a world that’s continuously trying to reshape individuals, especially women. That theme was very clear. And the second theme was the ways in which women disappear from the world. Of course, there is Tara’s literal disappearance, but in Mansi’s section, you have a woman who is slowly becoming invisible, right? She’s disappearing from her own life. She’s been controlled, gaslight, manipulated by her own family. So that’s also a kind of disappearance. And in Bhaskar’s section, the disappearance was probably more tech-focused. And the question I was trying to explore is: what happens when women are not present in the data sets that shape our world and in the teams that build the technologies that shape our world? What happens if it was only tech bros who built all tech. And tech now touches all aspects of our lives; it’s not something that’s happening in a silo somewhere. It was these themes I knew I wanted to address. The rest just came in.

There’s another topic that comes up in the book: class and caste. Especially in the friendship between Mansi and Tara. How was it to tackle that?

I wanted Mansi and Tara to be very different people. And, I guess, locating them in different class backgrounds and caste backgrounds also allowed me to amplify these differences. Both of them are stubborn, dismissive, even unseeing in some ways, and they keep parts of themselves hidden from each other. I think the starting point for the book was that you cannot really know another person completely. We are all unknowable in some ways. But what is more powerful to me is the lengths we go to understand those we love. What does it take to sustain a friendship of opposites? So, that was one part of it. It was not easy. Especially the parts about caste were very hard for me to write. And I think, ultimately, I tried to just stay close to each character’s consciousness. And for both Mansi and Bhaskar, sometimes it meant just letting things remain awkward, where the reader also knows that there are some things this character doesn’t see, right? Their silence, their inaction, is also very revealing. Bhaskar, for example, glosses over caste entirely. In Mansi’s case, she doesn’t get permission to just remain caste-blind because Tara confronts her.

There is also this interesting way that Mansi and her future husband, Siddharth, meet—at an anti-reservation protest…

And then she doesn’t tell Tara that, but Siddharth tells her; we realise that in Tara’s section. I wanted to strike a balance between what felt right for what I was trying to say through the book and not coming across as endorsing their caste-blindness. This is not nonfiction. This is not me talking about how society should be. It’s essentially a reflection of one piece of society through the eyes of these characters, the lives of these characters.

What do you like to read?

This week [with the release of Arundhati Roy’s Mother Mary Comes to Me], I have to say The God of Small Things. I read it when I was 13. It was the first novel for adults that I read, and it completely transformed me. It was almost like it opened this window in my mind. That, oh, you can write like this. I think I always wanted to be a writer, but suddenly this presented a very concrete way of being a writer in the world, that you can do all these cool things with language.

Was it a lot of Indian writers that shaped you as a writer?

If I think about my childhood or young adulthood, Arundhati Roy, Vikram Seth, and Jhumpa Lahiri really shaped me as a writer. And I read a lot of fiction. I end up reading a lot of contemporary fiction, to be honest, more than the classics, because I didn’t formally study Literature.

More recently, I really loved Miranda July’s All Fours. It’s outrageous but also so beautiful and profound. I really liked this other book called The Maniac by the Chilean writer Benjamin Labatut. It’s a fictionalised biography of a scientist. And it’s also, in a way, about the rise of AI. It’s such an amazing, unusual book. The last time I enjoyed a book like this so much was Chinaman [by Shehan Karunatilaka]. The Maniac is a little bit like that. I suppose like Bolano’s The Savage Detectives—fictional biography, multiple voices. But a really ambitious book. I want to make my next book about women and science—like a woman who’s a scientist—but I don’t know.... And I want it to be a big historical novel. That’s all I know. I just have this, the keywords.

What are you currently reading?

I’m reading Jeet Thayil’s The Elsewhereans, which I’m really enjoying; I’m about 150 pages in. But I think I’m going to start reading Arundhati Roy soon.

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